04/24/10
Here is a question I posed on my last blog: Should nicotine addiction be taken as seriously as the other addictions? The answer is YES.
Most people feel that smoking results in trouble like cancer and emphysema in the smokers’ later years. Very little attention is given to the immediate impact of cagarettes on our kids, our relationships, and most importantly, our efforts to be authentic, creative and successful.
The subtle symptoms of nicotine dependency can have a profound effect on an individual even to the point of impeding or delaying their recovery from other addictions. Here are some of the ways that happens…
People in addiction treatment and recovery learn to deal with their true feelings directly and promptly. They do not phoney their responses to feelings that arise, even anger; they deal with the feeling appropriately. Mostly, these feelings arise because our feelings are expressions of how we really are at a given moment. We need to express true feelings to the world we live in and let the folks in that world know how we feel. We teach people how to treat us and letting them know how we are feeling at any given time is a major part of that teaching. When the people with whom we are honest and direct can see and know the real us they come closer to us. They know we are not insulated from them by a chemical
Active drug addicts are constantly “putting it over on others” as they go through their world. Their drugs of choice, including nicotine, help them to do this by suppressing their real feelings. Nicotine is a good feelings suppressor. Nicotine helps to keep a person from being their real self. It serves as blinders and earplugs. I’ve seen it… Joe


